WHY GO EXTRA MILE ??

I am quite sure am not the only person wondering why people go extra mile  to get what they want and still not protect it. As an African I believe ladies do not have to go  after men, it is more correct if  men do the chasing. However let's not forget that certain laws were made by  men therefore can be broken. 

The big question is why does 80% of the men do the extra to get a lady but end up doing nothing to keep her? 

some guys go as far stalking, involving friends to talk on there behalf, some fake onces go as fer as borrowing  material tings. First of all  ask your self why  he is  after You?  Love is a beautiful thing but so many people go into it for the wrong reason. We ladies mostly make the mistake of thinking that any guy who is constantly on our way repeating same thing is the real one but  not all that glitters should be called gold.

Ladies not all men take "NO" as an answer, his Ego wont let him give up. Remember there is a huge difference between a man and a boy, both are male but a man is known not only by his age but by his mind set and behaviour, if his old enough and still behaves a certain way his a boy.

 I also took out time to ask my male friends thier opinion and  taught on why guys would  go extra mile just to get a lady,  50% pointed at lust, some guys go after a  ladies because of thier desire for flesh, believe me  before a guy makes a move to a lady, within him he has a minimum  idea what he truely wants,  30% pointed at past experience,  many has gone through worst relationships and out for a payback and  20% pointed at egotistic, some ladies pretend to be what there are not, clothing  maketh a man but not at the expense of faking it to an extent, fake attract fake and real recognise real. And lastly guy can be in a relationship base on a Bet. Like I said earlier different strokes for different folks, it's hard to dictate a fake guy from a real one and don't be too fast to judge, always listen to your instinct And with TIME the hole picture would be clear.